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Wyenot
News - The Weekly News Magazine for
Ross-on-Wye, Herefordshire
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No. 172 - Wednesday, 7th November 2007 |
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Don't
Cry. You've got to celebrate!
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Friday
was a day for celebration, not sadness! A celebration of
the life of Mike Davies.
Mike
Davies was a loving husband to Theresa, a father to Kay,
Darren, Jenny, Tricia, 'Pud' Ashley, and Mexi, a seven times
grandfather and a friend to many. He was a keen triker,
to the point that trikes were his life, and were the only
means of transport he and his family had available.
Mike
had also been a rogue in his time, but over all he was a
big man with a big heart who would help anybody, not expecting
anything in return.
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Mike,
who died of cancer just a month after the illness was first
diagnosed had planned his own funeral down to the last detail
in the short space of time he had to do so. He planned the
route, the message on the back of his coffin, 'Does it look
like I give a . . .?', which he asked one of his best friends,
Paul Beard to make for him. He also planned the music.
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WNTV Film: Farewell to a Big Man with a Big Heart
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Click
the above picture to watch, or right click here and 'save target'
to save to your computer. |
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Covering
the funeral of a friend so graphically on Wyenot News is
not a thing I would normally do, but having been specially
asked to do so by Mike's wife, Theresa, the task has been
an honour and a privilege to perform. Friday, 2nd November
2007 was a day which held both happy and sad memories. They
will remain with me for the rest of my life.
I'm
sorry Mike, I let you down and cried while I was making
this film and I defy anybody else who knew you to watch
it and not do the same.
Farewell.
We had only been friends for just over three years but during
those years, the kind man who thought of others, behind
that 'big man on the trike' image more than shone through.
The
huge gathering of friends during your 'day of celebration'
just about summed up how much you will be missed.
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Theresa
and the South West Trikers and Bikers pick up Mike from Abbottsfield.
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Mike's
penultimate ride on his trike, to Bridstow, where he lived. Ref:
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Being
teetotal, Mike requested a cup of tea (his favourite drink) be placed
on his coffin. Ref: DSC_2275 |

Mikes
wife, Theresa. A hug from Paul Beard, who made Mike's coffin. Ref:
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Mike
arrives at his final destination, the Forest of Dean Crematorium.
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Mike,
his family and friends arrive to the sound of bagpipes. Ref: DSC_3913 |

Farewell
Mike. Ref: DSC_2341 |
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Theresa
Sends Her Heartfelt Thanks
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Mike
Davies did not want his funeral to be a sad affair. As his
wife, Theresa put it, 'He had a hell of a life, we must
celebrate it.' Theresa
has been overwhelmed by the help and support she has received
during this difficult time and would like to thank her immediate
family and friends, the South West Trikers and Bikers, Cocky
and Enza, Tanith for her extra special work, Kay and Darren
for making sure she stayed fed and watered, the pall bearers
for making her proud, the out riders who ensured that Mike's
cortege made its way smoothly and uninterrupted all the
way and all those who attended Mike's funeral. Theresa
would also like to thank those who sent cards and messages
of sympathy and support.
It
was Mike's wish that instead of bringing flowers, people
made donations to his appeal for Jordan, a very special
boy who suffers with Proteus Syndrome and of whom Mike was
extremely fond. I am sure that Mike would be really proud
to know that a staggering £817 was raised.
I
also know that Mike would be very proud of Theresa, who
with the help of her family and friends carried out her
beloved's final wishes and said 'Goodbye' to him both proudly
and with dignity.
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THE
WYENOT NEWS DEADLINE
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The
absolute deadline for Wyenot News stories and other items
is 12:00, midday on Tuesday, for inclusion in the following
day's edition.
PLEASE
NOTE HOWEVER:
This is an absolute deadline and not the time
I am asking for articles to be sent in. Mondays and Tuesdays
here at 'Wyenot News' are Hell with by far, the most events
I cover occurring at the weekend. The photography that the
public sees happening is only one tiny part of the whole
picture (please excuse the pun) of running this weekly news
publication and the bits of prep that people do not see,
are actually the most time consuming part of getting the
story out.
If
at all possible, please send your story in as early as you
can, rather than wait until the very last minute, so that
I can have at least a fighting chance of getting to bed
before 3:00 am every Tuesday and Wednesday morning after
what has lately become two 18 hour working days on the trot.
Thank
you very much for your understanding and help.
Alan
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